Haven FYI – Friday August 21st, 2026

For many people in this area, it is common to hear in church that divorce is a sin. Those who are experiencing abuse within their marriages may instead be encouraged to “pray more,” submit more fully to their husbands, remain together for the sake of their children, or simply endure the abuse. Some have even been told that leaving an abusive marriage could mean losing their salvation. For someone already experiencing abuse, these messages can create an even deeper sense of fear, guilt, shame, and entrapment.

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Haven FYI – Friday August 7th, 2026

Understanding the Hidden Language of Abuse
When people think about domestic violence, they often picture physical injuries. But abuse usually begins long before anyone is hit. It often starts with words—carefully chosen phrases that confuse, control, intimidate, or make someone question their own reality.
These statements may sound ordinary to an outsider, but when they’re repeated over time, they can become powerful tools of manipulation. Recognizing these patterns can help people identify unhealthy relationships and support those who may be experiencing abuse.

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