Understanding the Hidden Language of Abuse
When people think about domestic violence, they often picture physical injuries. But abuse usually begins long before anyone is hit. It often starts with words—carefully chosen phrases that confuse, control, intimidate, or make someone question their own reality.
These statements may sound ordinary to an outsider, but when they’re repeated over time, they can become powerful tools of manipulation. Recognizing these patterns can help people identify unhealthy relationships and support those who may be experiencing abuse.
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Haven July Article
This month, as we prepare to get our kids back into school, we’re focusing on cyberbullying. Our kids are getting phones at a younger age and schools require our kids to be on computers for a good portion of the day. With access to social media, online platforms, and the internet comes the potential for cyberbullying. Even if we put blocks on our internet, kids are smart and find ways around it. It’s important to be informed.
Haven FYI – Friday July 31, 2026
As kiddos head back to school, it’s important to be prepared. We buy the school supplies and new sneakers, but are we prepared for online or cyberbullying? I’d love to say that we always know what’s happening in our kids’ lives but often we don’t know everything. Watch this quick video as a reminder and then learn about the signs and steps to take.
Haven FYI – Friday July 10, 2026
Have you ever felt a little awkward when someone seemed to be oversharing, or realized later that you may have shared more than you intended? This article by Dr. Betsy Usher explores the idea of “spilling”—a trauma response that can look like oversharing but is often driven by a need to feel seen, heard, and understood.
